How to refresh a relationship

2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44

Even the most passionate and intense relationships go through a period of routine and boredom. Especially for you - small life tips that will help you refresh your relationship, so that they sparkle with new colors and you start feeling your partner again.

Write each other a letter

In our digital age, an ordinary letter in an envelope looks fresh and will surprise anyone.

Write a letter to your significant other - when you come home tired, she (or he) will be very glad to find a paper letter in your mailbox.

Opening the letter and reading the handwritten lines will give you incomparable pleasure. While everyone else is scribbling messages on social networks and instant messengers, you will look like a real romantic.

Write about what worries you, what you have long wanted to say, write about your feelings, admit your mistakes, apologize, write a short verse or draw something. All of this is very inspiring. Handwritten text is more powerful than emails.

Swap roles

We are all accustomed to playing certain roles at home: someone cooks, someone else pays bills or does laundry and ironing, someone constantly picks up someone else from work.

Try to switch roles in your relationship for at least a week. For example, a man will cook, and a woman will pay all bills, let a woman take her chosen one from workout or work, and a man will take over ironing and washing.

Change your stereotyped behavior, feel for yourself how difficult it is to do other responsibilities - because sometimes you stop appreciating what someone is constantly doing for you.

This will give you respect for your partner and their responsibilities. And then you won't be foaming at the mouth to prove that cooking is nothing, but home bookkeeping is a completely different matter.

Have sex in an unusual setting

Add variety to your sex life together; don't make sex work. Sexual relations should develop, provide the expression of emotions, because sex is one of the most important components of a harmonious life.

If you notice that joint sex does not bring you joy, does not fill you with a bouquet of sensations, diversify it. For example, try role-playing games or sex in a car, go to nature, to the forest, to the lake, under the stars.

If you want even more unusual surroundings - rent a motel room, like in an American movie. Look for places and situations where you will feel for each other in a way that you cannot in your home bed. This will be remembered for a long time, and you will have something to remember in old age.

Become colleagues for each other

Another interesting way to diversify a relationship is to temporarily become a colleague for your partner.

You study the work issues that your partner deals with, find out what he does and how he does, what tools he uses, what he strives for in his professional career.

This greatly strengthens the relationship: you will appreciate more what your partner is doing, and besides, you will be able to broaden your own horizons.

The main thing is to remember that relationships must be developed, otherwise they turn into a routine and routine.

Against this background, as a rule, problems begin: finding each other's shortcomings, boredom or quarrels from scratch.

Look for interesting joint activities: sports, mind games, city quests, hiking, night walks, trips out of town. Do not be like those for whom spending time together is limited to shopping and cafes, cleaning and visiting relatives.

Love each other, desire each other, do crazy things - this inspires new achievements and fills every moment spent together with emotions.