2 rules that will change your love life forever

Rule one. Relationships should be easy

It should be easy from the very beginning. From the first minutes. A person with whom you immediately feel like old acquaintances suits you more than someone who needs to be courted for years. The guy with whom you are ready to retire in the toilet of the mall in fifteen minutes is better than the one to whom you have been writing letters without an answer for seven years. A girl who immediately shows interest in you is better than an unapproachable beauty who needs to be taken to the Bahamas.

Simple is good. Difficult means bad. This is an axiom. No need to prove it.

In general, you do not need to prove anything in a relationship at your own expense. You don't have to strive for anyone, adapt to anyone and run after anyone. Having done this once, you will do it every day, and in return you will see only a capricious displeased face. If it did not work out right away, did not catch fire, did not light up, do not pull the cat by the tail. So not your man. Difficult relationships are only suitable for those who are bored and have a lot of free time. For everyone else, this suffering only spoils the nerves.

You should not take out a difficult relationship on yourself. A relationship in which all you do is dance to someone's tune is humiliating. Sooner or later, the limit of your patience will run out. Don't let yourself get sucked into a difficult relationship.

The second rule, but no less important from this. Relationships should be fun

This statement also needs no proof. As soon as the relationship has ceased to bring joy, and began to bring nasty things, stop this phenomenon in the bud.

Do not get used to showdowns, tears and smashing dishes. Leave long conversations, accusations, recriminations. It is not normal! This is the road to hell! As soon as joy leaves the relationship - they become useless. It would seem much easier.

But after all, many people chew the chewed-chewed hay of their grievances for years! They occupy their brains with unnecessary disassembly! Do not do this! As soon as you realize that your words are taking away your joy, close your mouth. Disassembly begins - leave. The person only wants to blame and reproach - do not let the guilt plant you. Go away!

Relationships are for joy. All other relationships “for the sake of the children”, “because everyone lives like this”, “out of habit”, “because without it, it’s even worse” can simply be taken and taken to the trash heap.

For me, there are only two main rules. Do you agree with them?