Why is it helpful to be alone?

Few people like being alone. It depresses and depresses. We always try to be in any kind of society. It doesn't matter which one. The main thing is that the silence does not completely surround us. After all, society plays a huge role in our life. It educates us, guides us, influences us all our life. And breaking away from this familiar circle can be quite difficult for us. But sometimes the society becomes too much. Then a person wants solitude, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Loneliness. Everyone perceives it as some kind of failure or deprivation. After all, if a person is lonely, then he constantly loses. The winner cannot be alone. There are always friends, relatives and acquaintances around him. And since a person is lonely, then something is wrong with him. But this is not true. Many people strive to be alone. For example, you are a big boss. You have calls and meetings all day long, even in a traffic jam you talk to someone. I am sure that when you come home, the first thing you want is silence and loneliness.

After all, each person has their own personal space. This is a certain area of space around you, into which no one is allowed. And you yourself know that the violation of our personal space by others does not bring us anything good. It annoys us and makes us angry, and maybe even causes aggression. That is, nature itself has laid in us a small craving for being alone with ourselves. At least in the area of personal space.

Loneliness helps you think more clearly

We all live in cities and have an excellent idea of how this huge system works. We are constantly running somewhere: home from work, from acquaintances to friends, from one meeting to a friend. All these rat races become the reason that we simply do not have time to think. Our head is constantly busy with thoughts about work, home, calls, etc. Stop. Find at least one day in the week when you’re on your own, thinking only about what you like and only doing what you want to do. Believe me, having devoted the day only to yourself, you will be amazed at your thoughts. It is not in vain that many masterpieces were created by masters of their craft precisely in solitude. Maybe you will suddenly find an extraordinary solution to a long-standing problem. And before you could not solve it, because the head was constantly clogged with others. Perhaps you will realize that you are doing the wrong thing. Is it bad, being alone with yourself, once and for all change your life?

It's easier to see your mistakes

We make mistakes very often in life, but teamwork erodes everyone's personal responsibility. Has your project not moved for a long time? Someone on the team makes mistakes all the time, but you can't figure out who? Try to abstract from the team and work alone. Perhaps you are the person who slows down all the work, and you must urgently improve your knowledge in some area. Well, or just you will feel calmer that you are doing everything right.

Nobody influences your decisions

Let's be honest. All our lives, someone influences our decisions. First they are parents, then friends, then their own family, and so on. We hear advice and reproaches all the time. Yes, we are strong personalities, and we always make decisions ourselves. But, albeit unconsciously, society influences our choices. Even if not drastically, it can easily shift the vector of our reflections. Disengage from society for a while. Think for yourself, with your head, without hearing anyone around. Let only silence or your favorite music help you choose. Believe me, this way you will choose what exactly you want.

Loneliness as a synonym for freedom

When you are completely alone, you are free. For example, you went on a trip alone. At first, this idea will seem boring and unattractive to you, because there is no one to even talk to. And on the spot, everything will change dramatically. You get up when you want, eat what you want, go where you want. You don't need to look back at anyone. If you want, you don't have to leave the hotel at all. You are free to decide and do whatever you want. Then your choice will be only yours and nobody else's. You will even begin to feel more confident, because you have chosen this path and only you are responsible for this choice. And you can talk to any person on the street.

As you can see, loneliness has many curious sides, and being alone is not so scary. Just try to be alone with yourself and listen to yourself and not everyone around you. But don't become a hermit. Loneliness is good in moderation. Still, a person is a social being, and one should not forget about this.

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