How to find what you really want to do

Think about yourself

Forget about others for a while, take care only of yourself. Ask yourself: if you were completely alone, without friends and family, without a hated job and were not limited in your choice, what would you like to do? Don't be afraid to show healthy selfishness and don't be ashamed of it. If you do not put your own interests above the public, then no one will do it.

Don't regret anything

Constantly regretting what you have done or not done in the past is to stand still. Don't live in the past and don't regret anything. Live for today, live for the future.

Decide what you need most

We do not always understand what we need in life. And it is extremely difficult to find out. Concentrate and think about what really matters to you. A family? Freedom of Expression? Financial well-being? Make a list of priorities, it might help.

Identify what worries you

It is sensible to decide what you want to do, you can only when nothing is holding back. If you are upset or your head is busy, then you will never be able to make a decision. Figure out what exactly is annoying at the moment. “Office work pisses me off” is not the answer. What specific aspect of the job is of concern? Annoyed by your boss? Schedule? Dissatisfied with your position?

Think about how to fix it. Perhaps in the current situation there are no serious problems and changing only a couple of aspects will make you a happy person.

Find out what makes you happy

Pleasure is the key to a happy life. A person who enjoys life does not just live his years, but fills them with meaning. Think back to the moments in your life when you were happy. What gave you pleasure? Trips? Communication with children? Management of the company? It will be easier to choose the next path, knowing what exactly makes you happy.

Share your dream with others

There is no need to hide from relatives and friends the decision to give up everything and go towards the dream. By sharing your thoughts with them, you can get support and new ideas that you yourself would not have thought of.

Tune in to a positive mood

Life does not always go according to the script we have written. But you don't need to fall into apathy if something doesn't work out. Instead of grieving and doing nothing, continue with a vengeance. Success will come sooner or later. Do not give up, but think about the good and do what you have dreamed of all your life.

Just don't think that finding your destiny is easy. Many people have been looking for it all their lives. The main thing is not to stop and keep looking. It will definitely happen one day. Until then, try different professions and occupations. After all, without trying, you will never know whether it is yours or not.