Phrases from childhood that still annoy

2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44

Or a little vocabulary of what not to tell children.

An important new thread is gaining popularity on Twitter. Users discuss which phrases from childhood are so ingrained in their memory that they cause anger after many years. We have collected phrases that, unfortunately, many children of the nineties and zero have heard.

What is your phrase from childhood, from which your teeth still grind and some kind of ogression?

If we talk not about just the infinite "symbols of the era", but about what really hurt me, there were two such moments. When my mother, having gotten into the shallow me, said "nothing good will come of you" and swept my in-process model of the ship into the trash bin with rotten meat

"FACE EASIER"

"Don't piss me off"

"Do as you want" (hello, passive aggression!)

"Because I said so"

"I didn't bring you up like that"

"I guess I'm a bad mother" (hello toxic manipulation!)

"You are older, be smarter"

"You are offended because you give a reason" (hello, victim blaming!)

"Yours is nothing here"

And one more trigger from the same series.

"As long as you are in my house, you live by my rules" and arising from this phrase.

- and how did the other children write the test?

- Vasya has 3 and Petya has 2

- but I'm not interested in what other children have there

"Smart but lazy"

"Well, don't make it up"

"You should…."

(in relation to everything - behavior, success, deeds. It makes you feel that you owe something to someone just for the fact of existence)

"Don't disgrace me"

(feeling like I'm a walking shame and awkwardness, eternal shame, so to speak)

And also "don't do me a favor!" That is, do what you don’t want, but I told you to do it, also with a humble shining face! Fuck your dissatisfaction, hey! Like, don't make me feel like I'm forcing you to do this, otherwise I feel uncomfortable.

"Ungrateful" and "thank you ??" instantly after almost any action in my direction.

in the end, a sense of gratitude and a sense of duty merged into one, raking with the therapist along with the rest of the shit.

"Here I am at your age …", "All children are normal, but what the hell are you?"

Yes, a million of them.

"Stop whining", "you can do better." Thank you, honest human, honestly:)

"Leave this on …" and "This is on the way out" - in relation to clothes, each time a reminder that I am not very clever and neat ("You can't / you spoil / you break / you don't know how"

"Mom works for you all day, all day until evening at work, and you are ungrateful"

This is the phrase "we will come home - you will get it" or "I will deal with you at home." Then the house immediately becomes a hostile and dangerous place, plus several hours of fierce alarm

"You remember about rights, but you forget about obligations"

violation of my rights is punished in the same way as violation of obligations. stop telling me this every day and continue to disrespect and humiliate me

Why haven't you got up yet? Day and night beguiled? So you will sleep your whole life

"Eat / do it through don't want to"?

Especially when the situation is not that you consciously wanted to do something, and then you didn't like it or didn't want it, and when you are initially imposed on this occupation or hateful dish

"You will interrupt" in response to any request (not necessarily about a purchase) and "Just think, bear with it" to a complaint about any discomfort. also "Why are you like that ?!" and "What's wrong with you?" when I behaved somehow "uncomfortable."

Now I suffered, which cannot within personal boundaries))))))))

"Well, well" in a mocking tone

I get mad even if I just see this phrase in the text

All this, at best, simply spoils relations with parents, at worst, it forms the psyche of the child and is given in adult life by a bouquet of disorders and complexes. If you have or are planning children, try to protect them from this.