Table of contents:
- 1. Feel the closeness
- 2. Relax as much as possible
- 3. Take care of the lubrication
- 4. Don't forget about your hands
- 5. Don't be passive
- 6. Try to work only with your hips
- 7. Play with position options
- 8. Try anal sex
2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44
In this lazy position, the hottest sex of your life can happen.
1. Feel the closeness
No other position will bring you such intimate contact. In the "Spoon" pose, you touch the bodies from the very neck to the tips of your fingers, become one. This is an important point. Realize it, feel how your skin literally grows into your partner's, and your sex will become more sensual than ever.
2. Relax as much as possible
Spoons are so comfortable they are perfect for lazy sex. The pose requires almost no effort, this love game is easy to play even half asleep. Sex can almost become a meditation: you focus primarily on your own feelings and are not distracted by bed acrobatics and thinking about what your partner thinks about your body.
3. Take care of the lubrication
Lubrication is an essential element in almost any sex scenario. But in the case of the "Spoon" meditative pose, it has a special role.
The lubricant will ease penetration if you decide to have comfortable, sensual sex, barely waking up or falling asleep after a busy day. At such times, your own lubrication is naturally not enough. And it's good to have a tube of lubricant at your fingertips.
4. Don't forget about your hands
In the "Spoon" pose, the man's hands are literally untied. More precisely, one of them is the one on top. Examine your partner's vagina and clitoris with your fingers, stroke your belly, caress your breasts - this will add a degree of sexual sensations to both participants in the process.
5. Don't be passive
This advice applies to girls. Yes, the man has a leading role in this position. But the partner should also be active: caress the genitals of your beloved with your free hand and buttocks, or bend in the lower back and move your hips, changing the angle of penetration.
6. Try to work only with your hips
Sex in the "Spoon" position involves the synchronous movement of bodies, and this, of course, has its own charm. But try to deviate a little from the seemingly natural scenario.
Let the man hug the girl tightly so that the bodies of both become motionless. Ensure the penetration of the penis into the vagina by moving your hips towards each other.
Such frictions will cause a rush of blood to the pelvic organs, which means that the sensations from sex will become much sharper.
7. Play with position options
In addition to the classic "Spoon" pose - a woman on her side, a man hugs her from behind, closely pressing against her with his whole body - there are several variations. Try everything.
Back spoons
Turning the girl 180 degrees relative to the classic position will change the angle of penetration of the penis into the vagina. In addition, in this position, it will be more convenient for partners to caress each other's intimate areas.
Sitting spoons
This variation is especially interesting for bath or jacuzzi sex. The man sits down, leaning his back against the wall and holding his hand to the side. The girl settles down on top of her partner. Water will reduce body weight, and therefore both participants do not have to strain too much during intimate movements.
Bonus: in this position, it is convenient to diversify the sex game with the help of a shower head. Let the man massage the pubis and clitoris of the partner with a stream of water - this will increase arousal.
Doggy-style spoons
The girl gives her torso forward, trying to reach her ankles with her hands. Legs can be bent at the knees, as if taking a recumbent position "Doggy-style", or left straight. The man holds his partner with his free hand around the waist. This position will provide deeper penetration.
8. Try anal sex
Pose "Spoons" to him, so sooner or later you will probably think about this idea. If both agree, take a chance. Just remember the safety rules.
Be sure to wear a condom
Even if you trust each other so much that you do not use him for vaginal sex. Millions of bacteria live in the anal canal, and they should stay there, and not migrate to other places.
Use a lubricant for anal sex
The one on the condom is not enough. And in the anus, no lubricant is produced. To avoid micro-tears and other injuries, do not spare the lubricant.
Be as careful as possible
Agree on a stop word, move smoothly and carefully. If the girl at any point becomes painful, stop immediately and return to more familiar types of intimate pleasures.
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