8 questions to help determine if your relationship is happy

1. How do you spend your time?

In healthy relationships, people have personal time that they spend separately from each other and devote to friends, relaxation, and their own hobbies. Relationships in which people are together around the clock cannot be called healthy. In them, partners are too dependent on each other and do not develop.

2. Who is in charge?

In a good relationship, there are no major ones. Both partners are equal. If one of them dominates, it negatively affects both the relationship and the mental state of both.

3. How do you resolve conflicts?

Disputes in healthy relationships serve their development, are resolved through productive dialogue and ultimately help partners to better understand each other.

If any disagreement leads to a scandal, something needs to be changed in the relationship. Try to discuss this with your partner. Endless quarrels will definitely not lead to anything good.

4. Are you changing?

A good sign that you are in a healthy relationship is constant development. Partners learn from each other and change together. If this does not happen, you, like your relationship, are doomed to stagnation and degradation.

5. Do your views agree?

Long-term relationships can be built if both partners share similar beliefs and points of view on issues of principle. If disagreements arise, they can find a compromise.

6. Do you trust each other?

Unconditional trust is difficult to achieve, but this is what you need to strive for if you want a stable relationship. It is better to part with a partner who does not trust you, follows every step and reads personal correspondence.

7. How do you feel about each other's success?

In a normal relationship, partners rejoice at each other's achievements, rather than envy if one is better at something.

8. Do you want to change each other?

To build a good relationship, it is important to accept your partner for who they are. If you constantly want to change something in accordance with your views, you most likely just need a different person.