4 questions will show if your relationship is doomed to failure

1. Do you want the same thing?

For a relationship to be successful in the long term, it is essential that partners are united by common goals, interests and desires. Of course, you don't need to copy each other in everything. You may not agree on the little things, but when it comes to important things, it is better to be on the same wavelength.

Do your views on career, marriage, childbearing coincide? Do you want to live in the same place? If you strongly disagree on some fundamental issues, you should not convince yourself that you will reeducate your partner. Present yourself with a choice: accept the person as he is, or ultimately end the relationship.

2. Can you open up to the end to each other?

Can you openly tell your partner about your experiences and emotions? Feel comfortable discussing relationships? Strive to share with each other what is happening in life?

If you feel uncomfortable talking about your thoughts and cannot open up to the end, you will never achieve the emotional closeness necessary for a successful relationship.

3. How do you resolve conflicts?

If almost no disagreement can be resolved without scandal, it is worth considering ending the relationship. When people constantly fight and resolve conflicts in an aggressive manner, their relationship stops developing. Instead of enjoying the time together, they only think about how to avoid another verbal skirmish and how to prove to their partner that they are right.

In a healthy relationship, conflicts are resolved through constructive discussion and ultimately help both partners become better.

4. Can you be yourself?

The best thing about a long-term relationship is that you have a loved one who knows you from an unsightly side, but still loves you. Consider how often you have to behave differently in the presence of your partner in order to meet his or her standards.

People maintain long-term relationships, both romantic and friends, only if they are comfortable with each other.