50 things to teach your son

2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44

50 simple and difficult lessons that I would like to inherit.

Have you ever really thought about your relationship with children?

So that really seriously, and not on the run, sit down and calmly think: “Are they developing correctly? Am I happy with the way we communicate? And they? And what should I teach my children and what do I teach them in reality?"

No, I'm not talking about doing self-criticism or making complex scientific plans for the "moral and psychological training of the younger generation." No, let them do this in schools. But it is still worth bringing some certainty to this question.

For example, I sat down and made a list of things that I must definitely teach my son.

1. How to ride a bike.
2. How to throw the ball and hit the ring.
3. How to read and write (and do it well).
4. That life has not only a beginning, but also an end.
5. How to treat women.
6. Relationships are a two-way street.
7. Fighting is not good, but necessary.
8. How to shave.
9. If you think that a girl is beautiful, then you need to tell her about it.
10. Not everyone on the planet has wealth, so be grateful for what you have.
11. Do not refuse help to those who really need it.
12. The only support you can definitely count on in this life is your strengths and skills.
13. Our planet needs protection. Don't litter to begin with.
14. Life is sometimes very difficult. But after falls, there is always a rise.
15. An easy life is a boring life. And a boring life is a wasted life.
16. The world is not only your house and the neighboring yard. It's big and needs to be explored.
17. Everything in the world is logical and everything has its own explanation. If you have met magic, then it means that you simply do not see the transparent threads of the magician.
18. You learn while you live. Conversely, you live until you stop learning.
19. Logic and reason are all you need in life.
20. Knowledge is power, yes. But some things are better not to know.
21. If you fell in love, then try to keep this feeling as long as possible.
22. Be leisurely in your relationship. This area does not tolerate fuss and rush.
23. The decision to live together is a very big step. Very often after that, everything collapses.
24. If the relationship fizzles out, then have the courage to end it. Don't delay.
25. Sometimes you have to lie. And only the reason determines whether it is right or not.
26. Drugs are too expensive. You will have to give your life for them.
27. … it's the same with alcohol.
28. … but it's not about sex.
29. If the sex isn't good, then make it that way. If you can’t, then you’d better leave.
30. Intimacy is really very important in a relationship.
31. Never settle for a second grade just because it is more affordable.
32. Honesty is the foundation of a successful relationship. Except in some cases when a lie is really necessary.
33. Always follow your inner compass. He will tell you the right and honest way.
34. Be kind to people and appreciate them.
35. The main goal in life is to find your purpose.
36. Your task is to do something that benefits people, and you enjoy it. If there is neither the first nor the second, then there is no point in doing this.
37. Always try to win.
38. Think of failure as lessons.
39. Never give up on your dream.
40. You have to set long and short term goals for yourself.
41. You can control your body and mind.
42. Meditate regularly.
43. Always stay physically active and stay fit.
44. Proper nutrition is the key to health, and this is the greatest value in life. Literally.
45. Protect yourself. Is always. Anyway, as long as you are not married.
46. Don't have children too early. But you don't need to delay too much.
47. Love is important.
48. You are responsible for your own life.
49. Your family is always by your side. But you should also be close to your family.
50. Life is not about partying with friends, but having good friends makes it great.