2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44
Each person has their own little skeletons in the closet, and in order to live normally in society, you need to play according to the established rules. But a constant lie envelops, entangles in a cocoon, and you can no longer understand where the real you are, and where is your “correct for society” remark. Is it good or bad? Today we invite you to ask yourself uncomfortable questions and try to be honest with yourself.
In her TED talk, recruiter Morgana Bailey brings up a rather painful topic. And the point is not that she belongs to sexual minorities, but that she hid it for 16 years and could not be herself. She constantly had to monitor her behavior, what she said and did.
Each person has something that he hides in order to integrate into the surrounding society, even if it prevents him from being himself. But what about loved ones? If you are not completely frank, if you are not you who are real, then how can you understand that they are with you precisely because of you? With the development of social media, this problem has turned into a snowball that is about to crush us.
If we pretend to be someone else, even a very slightly changed person, if we lie to others and, first of all, to ourselves, we will not get our work and not our people.
There are more scary things inside than outside.
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