10 sure signs that you've found true love

2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44

Bonus for all who love and love: premiere of Therr Maitz - Container video.

And immediately advice for the future from Anton Belyaev, frontman of Therr Maitz. From the height of the years of his image in the new video of the group, he responsibly declares: life is short, in the end there will be only memories - live now!

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1. You are not ashamed to look ridiculous in front of each other

With your hair tousled after sleep, bags under your eyes and a pillow print on your cheek, you are not afraid that you will not be loved for not matching the ideal image. Because there is no ideal image - there is you, a living person who, by definition, cannot look one hundred percent round the clock.

A period of some embarrassment at the beginning of a relationship is a completely normal story: at first, many of us want to look better than we really are. Over time, we understand that our partner is not dear to a carefully created image of a plastic doll without flaws, but a living person, with all his diseases, extra pounds and a sudden pimple on his forehead. This is a sign that falling in love has grown into a real feeling.

2. You enjoy making your loved one happy

Cooking your favorite food, washing the dishes, letting your partner be in peace and quiet when everything is sick and tired - such expressions of care are much more reliable evidence of love than a bouquet of 50 roses. Of course, it's nice to show off a bouquet on Instagram, but the number of likes has nothing to do with the level of happiness.

And no, this does not mean that you need to please your loved one every day from under the stick, because it is written on Lifehacker. You want to do nice things on your own initiative. Something, but there is no place for victims in a healthy relationship.

3. You fearlessly discuss a common future

Where to go on vacation next year, who to get - a cat or a guinea pig, finally, how to name the child, even if he is not yet in the nearest plans. Joint plans are evidence that a partner has become an integral part of your life.

This, by the way, is a good way to determine that you are in a relationship with the wrong person. Perhaps in 10, 20 and 30 years, your loved one will also throw clothes wherever he gets and laugh at jokes that seem unfunny to you. Tolerant or frost on the skin? If it is tolerated, then everything will be fine with you.

4. You are honest with yourself. Even if it threatens to quarrel

When something doesn't suit you, you find the courage to talk about it and look for solutions to the problem together. In the process, it can be painful and unpleasant, but this is normal - it is better to deal with mutual claims as quickly as possible.

Discontent builds up over time, and when there is a quarrel over a trifling matter, here they remember everything at once. Flowers that someone did not give someone, broken promises, dirty dishes in the sink - word for word, fist on the table, and as a result, the collapse of the relationship. Moral: Don't try to close your eyes to problems and put up with what doesn't suit you.

5. You are not afraid of each other's success

“He will find a new job and have an affair with some young lady”, “She will sign up for a gym and pick up a pitching there” - this is not what love says, but hurt pride.

A partner is not a crutch for self-esteem, from which only it is required to maintain confidence in your own irresistibility. This is a person with his own desires and aspirations. It will change, this is inevitable. The best thing you can do is support him.

6. You know how to find compromises

Compromise is evidence of a mature mind and the ability to listen to other people's opinions. There is no need to always follow the principle and defend your point of view to the last.

Almost any issue can be resolved in such a way that both you and your partner will be completely satisfied with the result. Little drama is only good in movies. In fact, this is a rather exhausting undertaking, capable of ruining even a strong feeling.

7. Together you are better than separately

Of course, each of you has your own free time, friends and hobbies that no one is going to deprive you of. And yet you sometimes refuse to meet with friends just to be with your loved one.

An important point: you do this on your own initiative, no one makes scenes for you and does not force you to score on your friends by hook or by crook. If you are, perhaps, not chained to a battery, there are no options, the relationship is doomed.

8. You acknowledge the partner's right to make mistakes

And he gives you the same right. Because both of you are real people who do not have to live up to any ideals. Mistakes are inevitable, the question is how to treat them.

In any disagreement, remembering mistakes made by a loved one is a very bad idea. Most mistakes and mistakes can be forgiven. However, if your feelings are spat on regularly and with pleasure, it's time to end the relationship.

9. Sex is not the main thing

No, this, of course, is a damn pleasant activity, but besides it you have a lot of other things that are no less interesting. Relationships are not all about bed games, and you know that very well.

First, you literally do not get out of bed all day long, then intimate life enters into a calm channel. This is a natural process, most often there is no reason for concern: no one has stopped loving you, it's just that relationships develop.

10. You respect your partner, and he respects you

Respect is the foundation of a healthy relationship. You know how to reckon with the feelings and thoughts of your partner and do not pursue the goal in any situation to leave the last word for yourself. Love is not a story about who is right and who is wrong.

It may happen that one day you decide that there is no point in staying together any longer. Respect the decisions of your loved one and do not force you to continue a relationship that has exhausted itself.