5 unexpected reasons why you can't find a good partner

1. You are too nice

You may think that your more vile behavior would create more problems, but it is worse if you constantly blame yourself for all the mistakes on dates, for trying to please everyone, for the weather and in general for the entire universe. In this case, bad dates, bad weather and bad luck exhaust you so much that you want to quickly be alone and find peace in silence.

2. You are a woman

It is - from haircuts to medical care, being a woman is expensive, but you are significantly less likely to find a partner. The thing is that there are more women who are inclined towards marriage than men. This fact, little known to medicine, is familiar, however, to any woman who has seen many men who appeared in flip flops on dates in an expensive restaurant, so many of them are left with nothing.

3. You cling too quickly or clinging too long

It seems to you that your ability to easily converge with people will help you in finding long-term relationships, but not in the case when you get attached too quickly to those you do not know well, or cling to partners for too long, which you obviously should not be spend time. Therefore, you have been courting those who are completely unsuitable for you for too long. After the breakup, you are not only left with a broken heart, but you are no longer able to look for a worthy candidate again.

4. You are a freak

Of course, today with the internet and Comic Con being internationally popular, it's much easier for people like you to find each other. But anyone whose weirdness is not limited to glasses and a Star Wars T-shirt will attest to how odd things are for weirdos in the ordinary world.

Even if you live among your own kind in some city with a claim to be highly artistic, you are most likely better able to collect small metal figurines than chatting freely. Or maybe you are a normal person with ordinary tastes, found yourself in another country or rotating in a different culture, so you feel uncomfortable and cannot get to know anyone better, let alone “know” in the biblical sense.

5. You are out of luck

On the one hand, bad luck provokes new bad luck, so not only those around you shy away from you as if they were contagious, but you yourself are too depressed to dissuade them of this.

If you are mired in depression, stranded or put on weight, then you are no longer up to light-hearted chatter and jokes, it is difficult even to look strangers in the eye, so communicating with new people becomes a real torture for you.

Even if you approach the search for a partner with a rosy mood, prepare carefully for him, then even then luck may turn away from you, and potential candidates will turn out to be absolutely worthless. Failures can befall any of us, whoever we are, but you should not take it personally or be content with just anyone.

Authors of the book “Forget love! The Smart Partner Guidelines explain how to use headhunting and business intelligence techniques to manage romantic relationships. You will learn how to assess risks and effectively select suitable candidates in order to receive high dividends from a mutually beneficial partnership.