5 tips to make you a master of finger fingering

2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44

The very case when you even need to dissolve your hands. Only tenderly.

Fingering is a sexual technique in which the fingers are the main active elements. Actually, hence the name of the practice: finger from English - "finger".

Caressing the sensitive points on the body with your fingers, you can not only give your partner pleasure, but also bring him to orgasm. However, fingering is also good for self-satisfaction: for example, masturbation is one of its types.

Many people use fingering solely as a foreplay. A kind of aperitif for the main course - regular sex. And in vain. Fingers are capable of delivering sensations that overshadow the standard vaginal orgasm. You just need to know how to use them.

6 things to consider before fingering

1. Make sure your partner agrees

Some people like it when they put their hand under their underwear. Someone, on the contrary, cannot stand it. And both are fine. All people are different, and if your partner does not like fingering or, for example, the same oral sex, you should not insist. Remember the principle of consent.

The first important rule of fingering: if one of the participants does not enjoy this action, you must stop.

Find other options to please each other.

2. Don't be afraid to try it anyway

Sexual techniques are such a thing: you can't know if you like it until you try it. Therefore, it makes sense for each pair to connect your fingers and see what happens.

3. Try to caress yourself with your fingers

You may have had some experience with fingering and didn't like it. But this does not mean that this technique of sex is over. Maybe your previous partner worked their fingers too quickly, roughly, or too monotonously, and this is what pushed you away.

Try to explore yourself - independently work your fingers in the intimate area. This will help you figure out which movements you like the most. What pace do you like - fast and active or slow and gentle. At what angle your fingers should enter to give you maximum pleasure.

Exploring yourself is an important step towards truly dizzying fingering.

4. Be prepared to show

Having dealt with personal preferences, teach your partner the correct (for your case, of course) caresses. Guide his hand, show your favorite techniques, do not hesitate to voice if you don’t like something or, on the contrary, some movement brings you to almost orgasmic sensations.

5. Don't be intimidated by the role reversal

In fingering, there is no strict distribution of roles. Yes, most often a man works with his fingers, and a woman only gets pleasure. But, if partners are not afraid of experimenting in bed, you can experiment with massage of the prostate - it's not for nothing that it is called the male G-spot. However, this is another story.

6. Prepare your hands

Of course, they must be clean. But there are two more factors on which the success of fingering directly depends.

First, take care of your nails: it is desirable that they are short, and it is imperative that they have smooth, rounded edges. Even the smallest burrs can ruin a magical evening.

Second, buy some lubricant. Not the fact that it will be needed, but let it be at hand. The lubricant creates a sliding effect, which makes the penetration of the fingers into the body softer, neat and pleasant.

Some use lubricated latex gloves for finger fingering. Putting them on your hand can be an exciting element of finger play.

5 tips to make you a master of finger fingering

Let's make a reservation right away: the recommendations below are given for a couple, where a man takes the leading role. Fingering techniques that women can perform will be covered in another article.

1. Start from afar

Spend time warming up by kissing and stroking the woman's body; this will increase her arousal. Take off her clothes, leaving only her underwear. Stroke your chest, hips, buttocks with your hands. And touch the crotch as if by accident, swiping it with your entire palm.

When the girl is out of her panties, continue to use your palm to touch the labia without moving them apart. Only when the partner is sufficiently aroused, gently part the labia with one finger and enter her. For a start - not very deep and soft forward movements. Then again return to the caresses of the closed labia with your palm.

2. Choose a comfortable pose

There are several options that are considered the most comfortable.

• Sitting. The girl sits down facing her partner, leaning her back on the pillow. The legs are bent at the knees and wide apart. This opens up maximum access to the vagina and clitoris. This is a very frank pose, which is more suitable for partners who have known each other for a long time and trust each other.
• Lying face to face. In this case, the man does not see what his hand is doing. But the girl can regulate the depth and activity of the entry of the finger, bending the upper leg at the knee or, on the contrary, pressing it to the lower one. And it is also convenient to kiss in this position.
• Lying in a spoon position. Both lie on their side, the girl with her back to her partner. In this position, a man can fondle his chest with one hand, and with the other, perform a fingering in the perineum. The girl, as in the previous version, gets the opportunity to regulate the depth and activity of entry by raising or lowering the upper leg.

3. Don't forget about the clitoris

This is the most sensitive part of the female body. Touching the clitoris can cause a powerful orgasm. Therefore, do not miss the opportunity to press the cherished "button" while fingering.

For example, periodically run your finger up and down gently over your clitoris. Or draw circles around a convex point. Or place your clitoris between two fingers and move them in a circular motion. The main thing is to do it as gently and gently as possible: the excessive pressure in this area will be unpleasant for most women.

4. Add unusual moves

Often, caressing a woman with their fingers, men focus on one type of movement - reciprocating: they insert their fingers deeper into the vagina, then they almost take them out. It's nice too, but a little monotonous. Here are some techniques to help diversify this boringness.

Attention! Before moving on to this stage, make sure that the girl is already horny enough. Use lubricant if necessary.

Alluring movements

Insert your middle or index finger into the vagina so that its pad touches the front wall. Now, carefully begin bending and unbending your finger, as if you are trying to lure someone.

The pad of your toe will press against the vaginal wall during these movements. Move your finger deeper or closer to the exit to find the point on the vaginal wall that will be most pleasant to touch. If your partner likes it, you can add one more finger and make inviting movements with two.

Vibration

Insert two fingers into the vagina at once. Bend them slightly and in this position begin to make light vibrating movements with your hand. If you're lucky, the vibration will stimulate the very legendary G-spot that can give women unforgettable orgasms.

Corkscrew

Move one or two fingers in a circular motion, as if screwing them into the vagina. The second version of the same technique is to depict a spoon with your fingers, with which you seem to gently scoop something from the vagina.

Experiment with the depth and angle of entry, as well as the amount of pressure on the vaginal walls.

Double tap

Enter the vagina with two fingers. With your thumb remaining outside, begin stroking in a circular motion around the clitoris. In parallel, caress the inside of the vagina with your fingers.

Rider

Insert one or two fingers into the vagina at a comfortable depth for the girl and freeze. Give your partner the opportunity to move independently on your fingers, raising and lowering the pelvis, like a rider, and moving her hips.

5. Invent your own techniques

The listed techniques can be taken as a base. But you shouldn't just limit yourself to them. Experimentation is encouraged by quality fingering. Try to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at different angles, with different fingers (for example, with your little finger or thumb), with all kinds of movements.

Perhaps you will be able to invent your own original technique, from which your partner will experience orgasm after orgasm. Experiment.