8 types of men any girl can date

At the time of acquaintance and on the first date, many men can behave in a fairly predictable, standard and sometimes comical way. In this regard, they can be divided into several types. Let's take a look at the main distinguishing features of these types, and also tell you what to do with these guys.

Any attempt to create a typology of both women and men is certainly doomed to failure. By nature, people are amazingly versatile and surprisingly interesting. It's hard enough to drive everyone under a single template and divide them into different types.

Nevertheless, at the moment of meeting and on the first date, many can behave quite predictably. It's even surprising that completely different people write seemingly almost identical SMS and speak with formulaic phrases. Maybe then there is a universal instruction?

Let's talk about the eternal - about men. What subspecies of men can be distinguished and what to do with them? Let's take an example of eight interesting male types that any modern girl can, in principle, be on a date with.

1. Fitness trainer

About him

"Oh sport, you are the world!" - written in his Instagram profile. On a date, he will definitely come in clothes that emphasize his pumped-up figure, and may even offer the girl to touch his impressive bituha.

The jokes of these guys are usually not very intellectual, but they more than compensate for a peculiar sense of humor with an impressive number of CrossFit burpees and a story about the benefits of steamed chicken breast.

After each of his "funny" stories, he will definitely add that the story is "very funny" so that it is immediately clear why it was being told at all.

The interests of the athletes are simple. It could be the results of the FIFA World Cup, the nutritional system, or the best protein shakes in town. Books are not highly rated, except for how to properly prepare for an ultramarathon.

He will be happy to tell you how he took part in the Race of Heroes. Most likely, he will look reproachfully when you ask the waiter for a cheesecake for dessert. As a rule, they do not smoke or drink, because the regime must be observed. But they will gladly keep the girl company on a jog, skating rink or in a 100-meter race.

What to do with him

Go to a training session under his guidance, go for a run together, ask to lift furniture to the eighth floor or hammer in a nail. Make a fitness trainer your motivation to be in good shape. Healthy lifestyle is in vogue now, so maybe things are not so bad? In a healthy body healthy mind!

But let's do it without unnecessary expectations: it is unlikely that it will be possible to talk about high things. In addition, you need to be prepared that a fitness trainer can fall for another sports fit from the gym at any time.

2. Philosopher

About him

Philosophers are really smart guys. As a rule, they are graduates of the best technical universities in our country or top business schools in the world. They work hard and earn good money. But this is not the main thing. The most important thing for them is a craving for self-knowledge and self-development. Above are only the stars, and their dreams are not limited to the earthly world.

During a date, they can talk themselves all the time: a lot, for a long time, sometimes boring, but always extremely structured. They are distinguished by narrowly focused interests (often great talent and perseverance in what they love) and the need for algorithmicization of about everything, including communication.

They enjoy discussion, love to argue out of love for the art of arguing, and take special pleasure in the process of scattering the ashes of other people's arguments down the wind. The process of mental combat gives them the opportunity to once again practice their sharp mind and demonstrate all-round erudition.

They will definitely advise you where it is better to go for a 10-day Vipassana in order to get away from the mundane and how to meditate. Often they don't consciously drink or smoke because they don't need it.

They love the mental exercise of questioning conventional wisdom. They are very attentive to their feelings and emotions, but they do not always notice the people around.

What to do with him

Listen to self-help tips and use them to your advantage, read recommended mindfulness books and tell your friends about them. Marvel at the mental abilities of a philosopher and run as far as possible.

But if you are ready to become a modest admirer of his talent without the need to express your opinion, then the philosopher will be pleased and quite happy with you.

However, remember that men of this type are not sure that they can be with a girl for a long time who did not understand what Poincaré's theorem is, or did not fill out the file with long-term goals for life in time.

3. Handsome

About him

“Oh, what a bliss - to know that I am perfect” - with this phrase handsome men start their right day. They are very good-looking and know about it. They are accustomed to seeing enthusiastic girlish looks on themselves and understand fashion trends no worse than their ideal girls.

From the outside it sometimes seems that they and girls are not particularly interested, but this is not so. They are interested in women, but only in ideal women. “I love you the way you are,” is not at all about them. Unless you're a tall blonde model with bulging collarbones, a languid look, and an impressive portfolio.

They do not tolerate jokes about their appearance and hardly accept criticism in their address. They are often very smart guys with good analytical skills.

They perceive themselves as a gift and require proper handling of the work of art.

Handsome is the real dream man of Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City. He is gallant and courteous, behaves like a true gentleman.

What to do with him

Watch, admire and enjoy. Take a photo together and post it on social networks to make your friends jealous.

He may even give you a bouquet of 100 luxurious roses for your birthday, or fly to you from London for a weekend surprise.

Just please don't take this to heart. He does this not for your sake, but for his own sake. White roses look great with his beige trench coat, and the story of a bookish act worthy of Mr. Darcy - isn't he happy to tell his future ideal children about this?

4. Too good

About him

The dream of any grandmother and loving mother. Kind, sweet, well-mannered, positive, good. Too good.

After a couple of days of dating, he will start planning your joint trip to his parents, will write "we" in messages, implying your couple, and will tell you that his younger sister really likes you. He can pick you up from work, come to fix the tap in the middle of the night, meet you at the airport, as long as you dress warmly and wear a hat, otherwise "he's worried."

Every hour will write "Is everything okay?", Even if you did not get up from your work chair during the day. Gallant, well-mannered, gets up when a woman enters the room and goes to the ladies' room.

He starts the morning with a stereotyped message: “Good morning! I hope you slept well and gained strength for this difficult week … . Yes, he really loves dots, because they have so much meaning …

On the second date, he will tell that he is very glad to finally meet his true love - his long-awaited soul mate. After all, you are all so positive and you will be an excellent mother to your common children, by the way, he wants several. Touched, he sends you photos of other people's children, because they are so cute, and he just decided to share it.

What to do with him

If your interests coincide, then you can safely build a family. Such men are true to you and their words, they will be caring husbands and wonderful fathers.

If the story about the ellipses is not yours, you better run until he goes into the stage of a maniac and tells his second cousin about you, all his friends, colleagues and the seller in the toy store.

5. Creative personality

About him

Most often found among representatives of the creative intelligentsia.

They are in constant search of a muse who will inspire them to feats and new creative successes. If you are fortunate enough to be such an inspiration, rejoice, but remember: you are a fleeting vision. Today you are the muse, and tomorrow you are different.

Enjoy the moment, but be careful: falling in love with geniuses is dangerous. Nevertheless, your love story will be beautiful. He will draw your sketches in his diary, send nocturnal poems about dimples on his cheeks, which he could not help writing, inspired by your beauty, and also read Brodsky on the phone, because he unexpectedly left for Petersburg, because it is better to write there.

At first glance, it may seem that the genius is important that you think about Sartre, but in fact he absolutely does not care. Obsession with your own talent does not allow you to really remember whether you have read the book or not.

What to do with him

Enjoy the moment. But don't make far-reaching plans. They love not you, but your image, which they have created in your head. And they part, too, not entirely with you, but with your image - it's time to flit to another flower.

Don't be discouraged if you stop inspiring. You will definitely remain living in his poems or at least in notes, and dating under the moon will be remembered for many years.

6. Mumbler

About him

The true essence of this type may not appear immediately, but you will definitely understand everything when he starts whining and complaining about life, which he perceives as a set of continuous problems and unsolvable difficulties.

At work, he is clearly underestimated, his parents did not like him, his ex-wife left him, his colleagues despise him altogether. Such a man is a sufferer in life, who, by his own admission, deserves more.

One moment: he does nothing to achieve this more, because he feels that he will not be allowed to spread his wings anyway and stick sticks into his barely rolling wheels.

A whiner subspecies - suffering from the former. He will call you on a date or write with one purpose - to tell you about the ex: how cruelly she treated him and how unfairly she quit despite how much he did for her.

Any conversation will lead to a former passion, no matter how you try to divert the topic in a different direction. First, you will listen and think: "Here is a goat!" However, a couple of hours of whining will pass, and you will think that it is time for you to run, and you will not lose.

What to do with him

Run Lola Run! But if you try to see the pros in everything, then you can always suffer together when your normal friends laugh it off and say again: "Nothing, it will pass." The mumbler will definitely support.

You can also remember your ex - it can be fun.

7. Womanizer

About him

The type name speaks for itself. Womanizers are smart, good-looking and confident in their own attractiveness. They know their worth and absolutely know how to charm and be remembered.

They will flood you with compliments, flowers, take your hand and tell you that they have such feelings for the first time. This is all great, but remember that such men have all the days of the week scheduled, where every evening there is a date with a new girl who is told about one set of compliments.

They know how to look in the eyes in such a way that it will seem to you that you are the only one, and then they can leave the date and disappear without ever calling back.

They are too lazy to start a serious relationship, and it is not yet time. It is possible that they have not yet found the one, the only one. Although there is every chance that with age there will be more and more fateful acquaintances, and the average age of the chosen ones will be less and less.

One of my friends recently wrote: "You are one of the only ones to whom I am glad." Well, it's always nice to be on the shortlist.

What to do with him

Please do not think that it is you who can change the masculine nature of the womanizer. However, it is quite possible to use it for new sensations and good sex. His sexual experience is rich and varied.

8. Banker

About him

His working days and weekends are scheduled by the hour, so if you find time for you, it's already nice and you need to rejoice.

Your main rival for the heart of such a chosen one is his work. He spins like a squirrel in a wheel, and relieves stress during extreme sports or at a drunken party with colleagues on Fridays. He sacrifices health and free time for the future benefits of the country and the furs of a potential companion. The stakes are high, the most patient will get the prize.

The main thing in the life of a banker is efficiency and results, so it is likely that the same will be expected of you. Do not be surprised that by the time you woke up, the banker had already answered work letters and had a couple of business meetings.

The life and career ladder of such a companion is planned for several years in advance. He clearly knows what he wants from life and from you. He is one of those who every night before going to bed says: "Long live today is bad for the fact that in three years it will be good."

By the way, a banker's dream is rare and unstable, almost like stock indices and the ruble exchange rate. Most likely, you will remember your date as two hours, during which you looked at the person buried in his smartphone.

Your dates will take place when you have a chance to snatch 30 minutes. Surely you will meet in a cafe next to his office. Be prepared for the fact that he may well leave earlier, because they called, wrote from work, or urgently needs to meet with partners.

What to do with him

Learn from him for efficiency and love for work. Such people gush with good ideas, work hard, beautifully and with pleasure, and this is contagious.

If you are a patient, self-sufficient and understanding girl, you will be fine. It is not bad to live on the principle that you build your life and leisure without counting on the participation of a young man, but we are always glad if he can suddenly join in the event of a business dinner being canceled.

If you need constant attention and a joint pastime - do not waste either it or your nerves. This is not your option.

Life is richer than any typology

Of course, bringing everyone under one line is too bold, and fundamentally wrong, although, you see, it's quite funny. Humans are complex creatures that combine traits and attributes of different species. Of course, there are many more of them than the ones listed above.