11 rules of etiquette that you break and don't even know about it

2024 Author: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 03:44

How to convey salt, represent people and actually behave during a toast.

1. You are transferring salt incorrectly

When you are sitting at a table and someone asks you to pass salt, always pass it along with the pepper. That's what California etiquette consultant Maryanne Parker advises. In some circles, she says, this can be a test of your level of etiquette.

2. You take bread from the basket too early

Always offer bread to your neighbor on the right and left first. And only then take a piece for yourself.

3. You clink glasses during toast

It’s always done in films, but it’s not right. According to etiquette, you just need to raise your glass.

4. You sip from a glass after a toast in your honor

It would seem that when a toast is made in your honor, you need to drink with everyone. But this is a delusion. Hold the glass in your hand, but do not take a sip.

5. You are too polite at intersections

Of course, kindness and gratitude make life better, but at intersections you need to follow the rules, and not be scattered in pleasantries. Confusion can arise when someone lets another driver go ahead, which is very dangerous. Etiquette expert Mary Frances McGraw advises to always be kind, but keep safety first.

6. You neglect status when you introduce people to each other

A common mistake in business etiquette occurs when introducing strangers. According to the rules, you first need to name your superior, mentioning his title or degree. For example: "President Ivanov, this is Vice President Petrov." Or like this: "This is Professor Sidorov, his colleague - Professor Lebedev - and their assistant Sergei."

7. You carry your bag on the wrong shoulder

The bag should always be on the left shoulder or in the left hand. This will keep your right hand free to shake hands.

8. You come to your seat on the left

“It's etiquette to always approach your seat from the right,” says Gerald Glascock, director of the Southern Institute for Etiquette and Protocol. He also reminds you that you should never shake someone's hand when you are sitting.

9. You look into the eyes of the interlocutor when you sip from the glass

Don't look up as you sip your drink. Just look into the glass. It is more convenient from a practical point of view. This way you are less likely to douse yourself and end up in.

10. You pass food in the wrong direction

Food at the table must be passed counterclockwise or to the neighbor on the right. It is easier to maintain order this way: no one will be in a situation where food is offered from both sides. But there is also an exception. If the person to your left has asked to give him something, you should do it.

11. You incorrectly leave behind barbells in the gym

It is considered good practice not only to take a towel with you to wipe off sweat, but also to fix the bar in a low position after use. Then the next person will not get hurt trying to lift too heavy a weight.