5 types of girls to avoid

In our country, where advice is valued more than gold bars, everyone will be happy and completely free of charge to advise what they need from their own lives. And they will additionally tell you who is worth looking for in the depths of the sea of potential halves. For unmarried boys, grandmothers wish a good girl with an agreeable character, not angry, to cook, be kind and like to work around the house.

However, usually everyone is silent about which girls should be avoided. However, this is an important issue that requires careful study.

Let's look at a few examples of girls on whom you can safely hang a sign with the words "Explosive!" It is better to avoid such people.

1. Miss "I love myself and your money"

"Money? Money must be taken from men! " - seemingly the slogan of the 2000s. But no, crowds of nymphs with the eyes of a frightened doe are still in an active search for their resource man.

Such girls perceive a man as a donor, youth as capital, and themselves as a commodity that must be sold profitably and handed to a worthy candidate on time. As a rule, such goats gather in small groups in fashionable cafes of the city and with the gaze of a kite look out for unfortunate men who are about to fall into the clutches of a hawk.

They sit back gorgeous, doing it beautifully and without even trying to pretend to be a person with a profession. It seems to them that their true mission and purpose is to look good and impress society with their outfits. Whoever achieves such a girl will win a prize better than a car in the "Field of Miracles".

Such girls are convinced that looking good is a job that is paid for, so a man should give money for a monthly tuning, consisting of dozens of cosmetic procedures. They brought the passion for selfies to the commodity level.

In general, there is nothing wrong with the fact that a man wants to be a mountain and support (including financial) for his woman, but you should think twice before contacting a woman who only wants to be under her wing and sees the search for a rich prince as her only life. task.

2. Drama queen

Life for such a lady is a real battlefield, where she is the heroine of a tragedy, who single-handedly struggles daily with the imperfection of the world around her. In a relationship with such a girl, there will always be a place for claims, night calls, complaints and requests for help. After all, her life is a series of continuous obstacles and an eternal crisis. She always does more than others and suffers the most.

Dangers await such a girl everywhere, and even coffee spilled on her blouse becomes a problem of a universal scale. It seems to her that everyone around is against and wants to harm her - friends who are not friends at all, a family that never loved her, teachers who underestimated their grades, and especially the waitress who forgot about tea in the restaurant.

Society is doomed, everyone is wrong, and the world is unfair. A boyfriend in such a picture of the world becomes another source of eternal problems.

Such girls, as a rule, drink a lot, pouring their sorrows and griefs with liters of wine and vodka. Although, even after drinking a little, they can often lose their mind and sense of balance.

If you still look at the situation from a bird's eye view, it is quite obvious that the real problem is not in the outside world, but in the girls themselves, who for some reason regularly play the role of a victim 24 hours 7 days a week.

Either life without drama is not so bright and interesting, or you need to sincerely love Brazilian TV shows in order to really love being close to such a hotbed of disaster. Don't fall for provocations. Tranquility is the key to restful sleep, and good sleep is now held in high esteem.

3. Miss "Your opposite"

"We are so different that it would be better if we weren't together." The unity of opposites is a long-known law, but I am convinced that you should not try to be with someone with whom you have too different views on life, family and distribution of responsibilities in a couple.

Perhaps you will think that you can definitely radically change the girl and make her the way you want, but people cannot be changed by force.

Of course, over time, all people change, and evolving with a person next to it is cool and healthy for all parties. However, changing is cool when you feel like it, when these changes make you happy, and not when you secretly hate them and want something completely different.

Let's look at a simple and straightforward example. Your girlfriend hates cigarette smoke, begged you to quit smoking, and you are a good guy and went to meet her. What if it really pisses you off because you love smoking and now you have to hide and do it in secret so as not to upset the girl?

It's another matter if you were asked to quit a bad habit, you won yourself over and you yourself are happy and satisfied with this.

By the way, hobbies, political preferences and religious beliefs can be instilled and changed. But if you and your girlfriend have fundamentally different ideas about living together, about the future, about the distribution of roles in a couple, responsibilities in the family, then this can and should become a stumbling block.

Such a relationship will inevitably come to a standstill at some point. Why do you need this? It is unlikely that any of you will change your views. As a result, both partners will be unhappy.

We can live for a long time and believe that we love someone to death, and our constant fights are just a natural complexity of the relationship. But you need to understand that you are just different people. Live, create, sleep and have breakfast with those who are on the same wavelength with you.

4. Crazy fan

Remember Gollum from "The Lord of the Rings" and his famous "My darling!" It is with such fanaticism that many ladies plunge into relationships, becoming literally obsessed with their boyfriends. It is simply necessary to be together for such a girl, and existence without a second half becomes completely unbearable.

They will write you 100 times a day, call you hourly, check where you are, and even track your movements around the city. Didn't reply to your message within 20 minutes? You don't care, relationships mean nothing to you! Late at work? Change!

Remember: a relationship with such a girl is a trap.

As a rule, these girls do not. They dive from one relationship to another because from time to time boyfriends do bad things to them.

The reason for these problems is not that young people behave like goats. The reason is that these girls have a neurosis that requires an exit. And for this exit you need a certain person and a relationship in which they become obsessed and, as a result, suffer.

Such girls tend to throw tantrums and react to everything too emotionally, and the blame in their eyes will not be the world, but you.

Love is a synthesis in which two people complement each other. If a person replaces the whole world for another person, this means that he simply does not have his own world. Why do you need such a half-hearted girl when full of holistic natures?

The presence of their own life, interests, their own friends, both for a girl and a young man, has a positive effect on any relationship. Be very careful with those girls who sleep and see you as their only "charm". There are chances to end badly.

5. The humiliating brawler

There is nothing good in the fact that many girls assert themselves at the expense of their young people in front of others. All of your male friends will pat you on the shoulder with sadness and sincerely sympathize with you.

It is even worse if the girl turns out to be violent and will insult and attack everyone she sees on her way. I would like to hope that she at least looks like Angelina Jolie, otherwise it’s completely sad.

Such girls are constantly looking for a target in order to fight with her in an unequal duel. You are more likely to be an accessory to her purse than a worthy companion. They will not give you their opinion anyway, and every comment voiced will be publicly criticized, ridiculing both you and those unfortunate people who agree with you.

With such a woman, you are unlikely to be able to straighten your shoulders, even if you are a real Atlantean. Such a girl will make a steam cutlet out of anyone and proudly pat herself, which once again won the dispute.

Another important clarification: you need to avoid girls who openly show themselves stupid, or frankly stupid. Nobody says that you need to win the Nobel Prize in biology, but if a girl constantly emphasizes her exclusivity and importance, rolling her eyes, and she herself says real nonsense, then it might be worth weighing the pros and cons twice.

Who should you avoid?

This question was answered long ago by the American writer and public figure Mark Twain: “Avoid those who try to undermine your faith in yourself. This trait is characteristic of small people. A great person, on the contrary, inspires you with the feeling that you can become great."